Hey all... thought I'd give an update on how things are going. The general gist is, "WTF?" I don't mean to complain, but... seriously?
Dad developed shingles about a week and a half ago, probably as a result of all the stress of thinking about surgery, going through testing, etc. Took that in stride, and his case didn't seem to get as painful as shingles can sometimes get, which is good.
We've been waiting rather anxiously for Dad to meet with the surgeons to figure out when his surgery will be. About two hours before the appointment yesterday, my mom was rear-ended while doing deliveries at work. She's already hurting. This was the last thing her poor body needed.
At the surgeon appointment, they reviewed the tests and said the surgery is going to be quite serious -- the way it was explained to me, because of that membrane (the paracardium) removed 20 years ago, it's as if the doctors are working without a guide to where the particular arteries are located. They're considering sending him over to Seattle an hour and a half away rather than doing the surgery near home. The medical center over there has a few more resources to deal with caring for him if something unplanned were to happen.
We're just all feeling overwhelmed and scared, and things keep getting added to an already heavy load. I know we're not the only family who has dealt or is currently dealing with this kind of stuff, and I'm thankful for small graces along the way, but I'd be lying to pretend like we're not going through the wringer on this one.
We'd sure appreciate your thoughts and prayers. I think we've got a long month or two ahead.
In other news, this picture makes me smile... and then giggle a bit.
Only you can prevent swine flu.
I"m sorry, Stacey. This is really hard. I'll be praying for you and your family and that you dad can get the best care possible.
ResponderEliminarThanks, Beth. Depending on where the surgery is, I might be in Seattle for a bit. We may have to grab a cup of coffee in your neck of the woods this time. :)
ResponderEliminarHey, I know were just 'class friends' and all that crap, but seriously, I have some sort of bearing on where you are and know the stress of wanting your parents to just be BE ok and not struggle. It always seems so unfair and wrong the people who are hurting and struggling. I will be praying for your fam and for you and Justin and your little family of two. I know you have a million people to talk to and all that jazz but if you ever need another just drop me a message lady. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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